WHY GO TO CONCERTS?
"I don't understand classical music. I just don't get it".
By John Steinmetz
The good news its this: there is no right way to listen, there is no correct experience to have, there is no one thing to "get". Understanding is not required. Your job is not to be an expert on the music. Your job is not to be a perfect listener.
Your job is very simple: Be affected by the music.
That's it. That's all there is.
Because you are unique, and because your collection of experiences is unique, the music will affect you differently than it will anybody else. It may affect your emotions, your thoughts, your spirit, your body - any part of you. The same music may affect you differently at different times.
Music is meant to trigger reactions, invite reflection, awaken feelings, activate memories and touch your heart. So just let yourself be affected.
Of course your knowledge of music, and your experience with with it, influence how you are affected. If learning something about the music makes its effect more powerful, then by all means learn more. If repeated listenings help you to be more and more affected by a piece, then by all means listen to music a few times before coming to the concert. Whatever helps you be affected is good to pursue. If it doesn't help you, or if it gets in the way of your enjoyment, then don't worry about it.
A wonderful mysterious thing about live concerts is that everybody comes to be affected together. Everybody on stage and everybody in the audience shares in the same experience, each of us in our own unique way.